Why We Should Have SEX !!!

Few reasons why we should have sex NOW

Article By +Sam Elder 

• ·        Confidence and better self-image

Sex is enhancing the confidence and especially when we are with a partner, who loves us, cares about us. Besides, when we look at our bodies in the mirror after sex, often we see a completely different person! Moreover, we know that we lost over 100 calories with a 20 minute sex is another factor boosting our confidence. We must not forget that, according to scientists, sex help to increase the elasticity and luster of the skin by activating the subcutaneous tissue

• ·       It reminds us why we chose this person

Good sex is an important contribution that makes us feel that we are in a balanced and in a healthy relationship. Couple that boosted their sex life after a period of abstinence says they felt again as a team with their partner. Also, the majority of people argue that the best sex in life was during holidays. This usually happens because we share new experiences.

• It makes up want more

Experts believe that the release of specific hormones during the sex can be addictive as it helps us to recharge psychological batteries. Sexual life makes us want to have also social life. It may sound strange, but once we do " restart the machine " - finding babysitter, booking table for two at favourite restaurant or synchronising calendars for more sex is what usually happens. 

• It ties us with our partner

Sex enhances intimacy and emotional bonding between the couple. Studies have shown that there are two chemicals responsible for this bonding, which are released during the sex (oxytocin and vasopressin)

      1. Oxytocin, is actually a chemical that helps to bind the child and the mother, it is also associated with the binding of both partners and helps to produce intense feelings of affection and tenderness.

      2. Vasopressin, which is qualified as monogamy hormone, according to researches helps to create intimacy between partners. Sex may serve as the first step to refresh the relationship again with the your partner. More hormones also are released and are associated with pain and stress relief, so we always feel good about ourselves, and thus with our partner. Moreover, when we have sex, we both share something special, something that helps us to be in touch.

How Well Do You Know Your Spouse?

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How well do you know your spouse? This specific question in most cases is the first question that asks a professional psychologist of any couple visiting for marriage consults.

The first thing that psychologist does after asking the first question, is to do some homework;

-Discover ten new things about each other and lets discuss them.

In some study it was recently found that the pleasure of a relationship depends mainly on how well we know our partner starting from the innermost desires to the simplest things, as for example, the size of the shoes of spouse.

For many people knowing such detailed information about their partner is obvious but actually its not, as it might seem 40% of couples who attended the specialist doesn’t care or give proper importance to the dreams and hopes of the person they live with.

How difficult is finally to get to know the person next to us? So if you feel that the relationship you are in is not satisfying you, do not be in rush to draw the line and jump to conclusion that you were wrong in choosing your love of life.

Maybe actually after all you still have a lot to learn.

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Man Vs Woman - The Difference Between Men and Woman. Reaction on Different Situations

Next three differences between men and women

• Buying a car

Men: They know everything and check power, horsepower, luggage capacity, choose rims, spoiler, tinted windows, mp3 player and ghastly colour.

Women: They view only the colour of the car because otherwise all cars will look the same and the only way to separate is to choose vivid colour.

• Pets

Women: I love cats or cute puppies.

Men: I love bloodthirsty, ferocious dogs. Most men pretend to like cats, but secretly some of them are kicking cats.

• Children

Women: They know everything about their children. When to make the vaccine, when they are sick, what medications are suitable for the illness, and even understand what their children are thinking.

Men: Just realised that some little people are messing with their Phone and notebook.


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Man Vs Woman - The Difference Between Male and Female Behaviour In Different Situations

• Shopping - supermarket

Women: They ready have a list of what they need, they know what to cook, and they always check expiration dates and prefer organic or slim-line products.

Men: Go for beer they do not need a list. If they see any beautiful colourful packaging, perhaps with a blonde women advertising it, men will buy it no mater what the product it.

• Cooking

Women: They already know what to cook. Will clean and wash the dishes afterwards.

Men: They also know what to cook - something with meat. Maybe leave it a bit raw. Will leave the kitchen and the dishes dirty.

• Driving

Men: Left lane, playing with the lights to go to the front, drive fast, do wedges, drink and drive.

Women: Left lane, have forgotten that headlights will blind other driver. Usually drive as if they have been drinking.

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Six Basic Things that Happy Couples DO

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Six Basic Things that Happy Couples DO

1. Talking to each other - Many couples talk to each other after work, talk when they take a dog for a walk, talk several minutes on the phone.  It may sound excessive, but if after ten years of marriage you still want to talk to your partner so many times during a day, it is definitely showing something.
2. Make Love - Happy couples do not necessarily do sex every single day, but they certainly do it more often than those who are not happy. However, even if you do not have sex very often, you certainly share every day few erotic moments. To speak boldly with your partner, to hug and to kiss during the days with no sex is what happy couples do.
   
3. Doing thing with each other - Commonly, it refers to common hobbies. Even watching together a series on TV or play chess once in a while is a sign of a healthy relationship.
4. Do things by themselves – By doing some things separately, will offer a fresh air of renewal, in relationship. To go out often alone with friends but without the partner, missing some hours creates the necessary space between the pair, which is necessary.
5. Go to bed together - Do you remember the first time that anxious to go to bed to make love to your partner? Happy couples avoid going to bed at different hours even if they have to wake up different hours from each other.
6. They Say Daily, I love you - What a better way to start or finish a day?

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