Why Men Forget Words ON FIRST DATE?

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If on the first date your date lost his words, it does not necessarily mean that he can’t have conversation it’s just he finds you stunning. According to new study, it seems that men are literally losing their minds at the sight of a beautiful woman.

This study began when a male psychologist was shocked by the fact that during his conversation with a beautiful woman he had just met, he forgot the address of his house, when she asked him where he lived in.

As it emerged from the survey, some men who enjoy a company of an attractive existence for only few minutes, sometime failed to obtain correct mental tests, in comparison to those who chatted with a woman who wasn’t that beautiful.

Scientists estimated that this probably happens because men use a very large part of the brain in order to impress women, so men a

re not able to deal with more mental activities at that time.

It was also pointed out that the performance of the men at work or school might be adversely affected because of flirting with a nice colleague or classmate.

The face of Average Woman From 40 Countries

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Two psychologists at the University of Aberdeen in Scotland have managed to create the average face of a woman from 40 different countries by using software that creates the final image after processing thousands of pictures of women from each country.

Whether the result is accurate or not, it has been questioned, simply because the unknown criteria were used in selection of data. Final results are also being doubted because of unknown origin of used picture. It also does not specify the number of images they have used to create the final result.

Nevertheless, all are images of young women and they all look beautiful probably because all imperfections were disappeared due to the mixing of so many faces.

Check out the result, it is very impressive.

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Couples that used to share housework are 50% more likely to get divorced than those who keep the traditional division of the "labor". 

This conclusion is based according to the new studies. It seems that problems is arising from the overlapping of responsibilities within the home.

But not everyone was convinced with these studies as for example the professor of sociology at the University of Canterbury believes that the survey-study results are due to bias of a specific population. People who took part in the survey were mostly middle-class professionals, a category in which the divorce rate is very high. It seems these people are affected more easily when something does not seem correct .

Regardless of which of the two interpretations is correct, the conclusion is:

• More you organise your relationship with rules and obligations, it comes predictable, and so instead of living in harmony, there is a conflict of interests.

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Why We Should Have SEX !!!

Few reasons why we should have sex NOW

Article By +Sam Elder 

• ·        Confidence and better self-image

Sex is enhancing the confidence and especially when we are with a partner, who loves us, cares about us. Besides, when we look at our bodies in the mirror after sex, often we see a completely different person! Moreover, we know that we lost over 100 calories with a 20 minute sex is another factor boosting our confidence. We must not forget that, according to scientists, sex help to increase the elasticity and luster of the skin by activating the subcutaneous tissue

• ·       It reminds us why we chose this person

Good sex is an important contribution that makes us feel that we are in a balanced and in a healthy relationship. Couple that boosted their sex life after a period of abstinence says they felt again as a team with their partner. Also, the majority of people argue that the best sex in life was during holidays. This usually happens because we share new experiences.

• It makes up want more

Experts believe that the release of specific hormones during the sex can be addictive as it helps us to recharge psychological batteries. Sexual life makes us want to have also social life. It may sound strange, but once we do " restart the machine " - finding babysitter, booking table for two at favourite restaurant or synchronising calendars for more sex is what usually happens. 

• It ties us with our partner

Sex enhances intimacy and emotional bonding between the couple. Studies have shown that there are two chemicals responsible for this bonding, which are released during the sex (oxytocin and vasopressin)

      1. Oxytocin, is actually a chemical that helps to bind the child and the mother, it is also associated with the binding of both partners and helps to produce intense feelings of affection and tenderness.

      2. Vasopressin, which is qualified as monogamy hormone, according to researches helps to create intimacy between partners. Sex may serve as the first step to refresh the relationship again with the your partner. More hormones also are released and are associated with pain and stress relief, so we always feel good about ourselves, and thus with our partner. Moreover, when we have sex, we both share something special, something that helps us to be in touch.

Man Vs Woman - The Difference Between Men and Woman. Reaction on Different Situations

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•        Flirt

Women: cross their legs, have mysterious look with promising glances.

Men: Once they see a woman who seems interested, they start chatting loudly about how successful they are at work, how much they paid for a car and how many goals they achieved. Men also are throwing promising glimpses but….. at thighs and  breast of a woman.

• ·      First date 

Women: Usually dress up slightly provocatively with two drops of perfume on the neck below the ears. They usually are choose where to meet and they always try to pay.

Men: they choose military baggy pants to play it cool.  Wear golden chain and good watch. They always pay the bill and tip more that 5 USD

• ·      Before having sex

Women: They prefer to make out for 30-40 minutes.

Men: They prefer make out for 30-40 seconds.

The rest I’m leaving for you imagination

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How Well Do You Know Your Spouse?

Article by SamElder


How well do you know your spouse? This specific question in most cases is the first question that asks a professional psychologist of any couple visiting for marriage consults.

The first thing that psychologist does after asking the first question, is to do some homework;

-Discover ten new things about each other and lets discuss them.

In some study it was recently found that the pleasure of a relationship depends mainly on how well we know our partner starting from the innermost desires to the simplest things, as for example, the size of the shoes of spouse.

For many people knowing such detailed information about their partner is obvious but actually its not, as it might seem 40% of couples who attended the specialist doesn’t care or give proper importance to the dreams and hopes of the person they live with.

How difficult is finally to get to know the person next to us? So if you feel that the relationship you are in is not satisfying you, do not be in rush to draw the line and jump to conclusion that you were wrong in choosing your love of life.

Maybe actually after all you still have a lot to learn.

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The Power of Break Up - The Power of Goodbye

Did you know that break up and the memory of ex activates specific brain cells that are associated with physical pain. This is the conclusion of several months’ research made in USA where separated people were examined and studied for six months. 

The participant’s brains were studied via magnetic tomography while they were viewing the photographs of ex partner and telling the stories from life together. In order to complete the experiment, researcher caused also a real pain to participants.

The findings were impressive. As it was revealed after the analysis of geophysical data, memories of ex activate the same brain cells as those of pain. In other words, the memory of separation creates real pain. The explanation for this phenomenon may lie within evolutionary theory.

Partitioning in previous evolutionary stages meant the –removal- (usually death) of one lover.  Such -removal – was accompanied by physical pain and often led to the death due to lack of food and protection against natural phenomena.

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Best Christmas Gift for your SPOUSE

Christmas is on its way, and you are still haven’t chosen a gift for your wife? Don’t worry, I found it for you. It is a pink diamond of 59.60 carats that is going to be auctioned next month by the house Sotheby's in Geneva.

It is a very special and unique gift since the pink diamond is one of the rarest in the world and it has an excellent colour. It is one of the greatest treasures that earth can give us. The pink diamond belongs to the group of 11(a) type diamonds that stand for the transparency and purity of the gemstone.

So, what are you waiting for? Your wife will adore you after giving her such a present…If you have a few millions to spend, don’t miss this auction next month (do not forget to tip me for idea) … After all diamonds are a girl’s best friend !!!

 Hurry up before someone else gets it !!!

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Does marriage make us fat ? ...

Researchers at the University of North Carolina, found out that married women are almost twice have the chance to get more kg and end up obese in comparison with their male spouses.

At is seems this happens due to some psychological causes. People crave for many years to find love, the perfect man, the one who will walk with them hand-to-hand through their lives. When finally it happens most of them relax and exercise less, they spend more time on the couch enjoying fast food, watching movies. Even a simple date or go out for drinks has been replaced with having food outside.

Without realising the lifestyle is slowly changed and they forget whatever good habit they had when they were into searching for partner.

Psychologists recommend and allow enjoying a little bit more food and feeling relaxed in the relationship, but never ever forget about gym.

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Man Vs Woman - The Difference Between Men and Woman. Reaction on Different Situations

Next three differences between men and women

• Buying a car

Men: They know everything and check power, horsepower, luggage capacity, choose rims, spoiler, tinted windows, mp3 player and ghastly colour.

Women: They view only the colour of the car because otherwise all cars will look the same and the only way to separate is to choose vivid colour.

• Pets

Women: I love cats or cute puppies.

Men: I love bloodthirsty, ferocious dogs. Most men pretend to like cats, but secretly some of them are kicking cats.

• Children

Women: They know everything about their children. When to make the vaccine, when they are sick, what medications are suitable for the illness, and even understand what their children are thinking.

Men: Just realised that some little people are messing with their Phone and notebook.


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Man Vs Woman - The Difference Between Male and Female Behaviour In Different Situations

• Shopping - supermarket

Women: They ready have a list of what they need, they know what to cook, and they always check expiration dates and prefer organic or slim-line products.

Men: Go for beer they do not need a list. If they see any beautiful colourful packaging, perhaps with a blonde women advertising it, men will buy it no mater what the product it.

• Cooking

Women: They already know what to cook. Will clean and wash the dishes afterwards.

Men: They also know what to cook - something with meat. Maybe leave it a bit raw. Will leave the kitchen and the dishes dirty.

• Driving

Men: Left lane, playing with the lights to go to the front, drive fast, do wedges, drink and drive.

Women: Left lane, have forgotten that headlights will blind other driver. Usually drive as if they have been drinking.

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Things That You Never Hear from Men

There are some things you will never hear a man saying…may be only in your dreams… 

1. What a beautiful day it is today, would you like to go shopping?

2. I think we are lost. I should ask someone for directions.

3. Would you like me to help you with the house cleaning? I really enjoy it.

4. It is Sunday evening, and TV shows only football, would you like to go the theatre instead?

5. You look so beautiful with this beauty mask on your face!

6. I really find annoying that super slim and tall blond girlfriend of yours….

7. How about I cook today and wash the dishes while you read the newspaper?

8. How about we call your mother for lunch today?

9. My friends wanted to come by for beer tonight, but I told no because you just want to relax.

10. It has been so many years since we met for the first time and I still feel so in love with you.

Hope you don’t hate us after reading this… We still love you girls….

Six Basic Things that Happy Couples DO

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Six Basic Things that Happy Couples DO

1. Talking to each other - Many couples talk to each other after work, talk when they take a dog for a walk, talk several minutes on the phone.  It may sound excessive, but if after ten years of marriage you still want to talk to your partner so many times during a day, it is definitely showing something.
2. Make Love - Happy couples do not necessarily do sex every single day, but they certainly do it more often than those who are not happy. However, even if you do not have sex very often, you certainly share every day few erotic moments. To speak boldly with your partner, to hug and to kiss during the days with no sex is what happy couples do.
   
3. Doing thing with each other - Commonly, it refers to common hobbies. Even watching together a series on TV or play chess once in a while is a sign of a healthy relationship.
4. Do things by themselves – By doing some things separately, will offer a fresh air of renewal, in relationship. To go out often alone with friends but without the partner, missing some hours creates the necessary space between the pair, which is necessary.
5. Go to bed together - Do you remember the first time that anxious to go to bed to make love to your partner? Happy couples avoid going to bed at different hours even if they have to wake up different hours from each other.
6. They Say Daily, I love you - What a better way to start or finish a day?

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Reactions of Women and Men to Emotions Inside of Relationship

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Men and women perceive sexual understanding of their partner is directly associated with pleasure in a relationship. Women who perceive negative emotions of their partner are usually happy with the relationship. Women also feel good when partner understands their own negative feelings.

On the other hand, the satisfaction of men within relationship is directly associated with positive feelings of a partner. The common reaction when woman is acting negatively for men is that men feel threatened.

Despite the differences, however, between the two sexes, the conclusion is:

More we are all trying to show the understanding for the feelings of our companion, the happier we are. So understanding and communication are definitely the ingredients that make a relationship more satisfying with a small difference that we (men) prefer to deal with our own difficulties, in contrast to women.

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How To Turn a Bachelor’s House Into a Woman Friendly Castle

The first time you let a woman enter your castle is very important. As a bachelor you are used to having your own space, you have made your house exactly as you like it. But what about the woman of your dreams? Do you think she would like it too? There a few things that a woman would love to see in a bachelor’s house that could make her appreciate you more and make you the one and only man in her life.

1.The house must be clean. No thrown things around, the dishes should be washed, no pizza box on the floors… generally everything should be in order. Your house must smell fresh air instead of cigarette or humidity…

2.Internal Plants. That is something we don’t usually meet on a bachelor’s home but if a woman sees one, that makes her think that this man is very responsible.

3.Having a nice organised library. Books show that you like reading, that you are sophisticated and that certainly interests women.

4.Albums of your pictures with your family-friends. Please keep away every photo of your ex girlfriends, as it will stress out any woman and make her think that you are still not over of your ex.

5.If you have a pet, you won a bonus at a woman’s heart. Women love the men who take care of their pets, who show affection and are sweet and tender towards their pets. Subconsciously she feels that he will be a great parent too.

Follow those tips and you will have a big success….. 

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Most Lines That Men Use To Dump a Woman

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Bellow I have gathered ten most common lines that guy uses to dump or to reject woman.

Check it out and find the true meaning behind the lines.

1. I see you as my sister (You are ugly)

2. We have small age difference (too smart)

3. I’m not attracted that way (You look like my mom)

4. My life is very complicated at this time (only for casual sex)

5. I am already in relationship (I can find better looking)

6. I am against dating women from my job (You are annoying)

7. It's not your fault; it's my fault (you are boring)

8. Now I deal with my career (only casual sex)

9. I do not want to commit (casual sex)

10. Let's be friends (you’re too hopelessly bad)

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Men Prefer Brunettes

Blonde VS Brunette 

New surveys reveal four reasons why men prefer brunettes.  And most especially because they fall in love with blondes but eventually marry brunettes.

Here are the reasons

-Brunettes are considered to be more mature. 

Of course the research doesn’t claim that blonde hair colour indicates maturity of a woman, but this fact is completely associated with the minds of men. If you ask any men who are more mature blonde or brunette you will get your answer.

-Brunettes are considered to be more serious. It has been shown that men find blondes women more easy and fun. Brunettes on other hand are more practical and serious.

-Considered more capable. It seems that hair colour affects all areas in the mind of a man, brunettes are more capable than blondes and so are more likely to be hired for a job.

-They make men feel more successful.  For all above reasons men think that brunettes have more positive elements, elements of a good girl. Blondes on other hand are considered bad girls.

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